Compliments can make a person happy and more confidence.
Although when we receive compliments, we are like not believing that person compliments because we thought that he/she is just joking or just simply give out compliments.
But what it's actually help is that, the person normally very happy and make their day! Of course as a normal human being, you'll be very happy when people praise you. Although they might say, "Where got? I'm not handsome la...." or "I'm stupid only la, where got smart?" like not believing in you compliments or like not accepting your compliments, but deep inside that person's heart, he/she is smiling non stop.... LOL!
Not to say that they are humble, but that's the normal people will react. Except those very HIGH CONFIDENCE people, who are very confidence in himself/herself, they might think they deserve it. "You're handsome", said A. "You don't need to say it I also know that I'm handsome", reply B. LOL! (TIPS: Although you know that you're handsome, PLEASE do not show it out but reacting like that! People like you to be humble!)
If a person reacting too humble is also not a good things. If that person reacting too humble, whether he/she is playing around or he/she don't have confidence in himself/herself. If this is the case, that's not a healthy sign. Someone should comform him/her so that he/she not so down and hopeless.
Besides that, the most important thing is that, they will become more confidence in themselves! Constructive compliments from others can let you know what the others think of you and know the other side of you. More likely is that, you don't know the other side of you, where your strength or weakness is. A little bit of destructive compliments is also ok(if you are open enough and can accept it) and normally smart people learn from there. Change or adapt to what the society needs. I often like what other's view of me because I want to be a better person, better student, better friend and better son?
Constructive compliments can help you to decide what you really need to do, help you to make decision or awake you of your true self.
Example: "You're actually very good in singing plus you're handsome! Maybe you can be an artist!". After that compliment, if you always think that you wanted to be an artist but stucking here working as a guard/promoter/shopkeeper, maybe you think it's the time you really should change your job to do what you really want to do.
This is only my point of view of what I suddenly realise & what I had experience and wanted to share my thoughts. Feel free to shoot me if you don't agree with me... ^_^
(Forwarded email from my brother)
To all those CDs lover pls beware!!!.
Please do not keep any pirated or burned CDs, DVDs, or VCDs in your car.
Police and Domestic Trade & Consumer Affairs Ministry's enforcement division in Malaysia have started the operation to search and fine anyone who keep pirated disc inside their car especially through road block at all main road and expressways.
If any pirated or burned disc found inside your car will be charged RM400 per disc. Example 30 discs found means the fine will be RM12,000.
This is real. Another friend of mine from Seagate, today during lunch time, 5 CD x RM400, 2K lor........
One of the Plexus colleague brother-in-law caught by Police due to pirated CD in the car on the way to town for lunch with his friend in the afternoon. One CD fined RM400...oh no..
Please disseminate this to all your friends who are driving in Malaysia!
Good luck!
To all those CDs lover pls beware!!!.
Please do not keep any pirated or burned CDs, DVDs, or VCDs in your car.
Police and Domestic Trade & Consumer Affairs Ministry's enforcement division in Malaysia have started the operation to search and fine anyone who keep pirated disc inside their car especially through road block at all main road and expressways.
If any pirated or burned disc found inside your car will be charged RM400 per disc. Example 30 discs found means the fine will be RM12,000.
This is real. Another friend of mine from Seagate, today during lunch time, 5 CD x RM400, 2K lor........
One of the Plexus colleague brother-in-law caught by Police due to pirated CD in the car on the way to town for lunch with his friend in the afternoon. One CD fined RM400...oh no..
Please disseminate this to all your friends who are driving in Malaysia!
Good luck!
Today, 19th of June 2009 is the day where I officially start to use CDL(Competent Driving License) license after my P driving license ended yesterday night!
Actually I renew earlier and I got the license last Tuesday already, it's normal to renew earlier. Who's know when you suddenly busy on that day itself? Then you are using expired license to drive...
My License journey, now only I got CDL.
This is the license I'm going to use from today ONWARDS!
My car...Before
NOW!
Clean and Clear!
Actually I renew earlier and I got the license last Tuesday already, it's normal to renew earlier. Who's know when you suddenly busy on that day itself? Then you are using expired license to drive...
My License journey, now only I got CDL.This is the license I'm going to use from today ONWARDS!
My car...Before
NOW!
Clean and Clear!
Just a general updates on what I have been doing after I'm back from National Service, last Sunday, 7th Of June 2009
*Warning!- My super long, 2 weeks boring update text! Would result in brain damage and cause you to be insane! Read at your own risk!
First Week
Monday, 8/06/09- My dorm mate and my close friend, birthday! The guest that night was all from our camp! Just haven't see each other for one day, then we meet up again! That was kinda celebration after came out from NS.
Tuesday, 9/06/09- Continued party, heading to Times Square for movie tittled Night At The Museum 2. We went there by car and park at Imbi Plaze for 3-4 hours cost us RM12! This is a lesson for me not to park there again! After that, fetch one by one until the last stop was at Semenyih! First time drive until so far!
Wednesday, 10/06/09- Go out with parents to watch Terminator 4 at Leisure Mall.
Thursday, 10/06/09- Firstly, forgot my online banking password and username after 3 months at NS. Then go to ATM Machine to fix the problem, then I realise my password was wrong but I'm very sure is that password. Don't know why and I have to pay RM12 for another ATM because they can't reset the password. That's the only solution. You forgot your ATM Card password, you pay RM12! Another lesson for me. This is the cause that I go to NS. Forgot everything for 3 months!
This is quite cheap compare to my friend case. He forgot his hp pin code and bring it to the shop to fix it cost RM30! This is also because going into NS for 3 months, didn't use the HP and you forgot the pin code. Another lesson.
Friday, 12/06/09- Having dinner at 'Look Out Point', for the first time with friend. We have to enjoy la since we got money from NS. Although that night was not so smooth with most of them turn off my invitation and with raining but the event is still on because I still have some very friendship and trusted friend around me! Haha! Thanks guys for making that night a successful and meaningful night for us! In fact, the rain makes the weather even better!
Saturday, 13/06/09- Go to sing K at Bobby's house. Abit of not so smooth event happen because his mic suddenly not working. Normally just ok because this is not my first time sing K at his house. LOL! And then, came a pro singer, claim himself seldom sing. haha... Sing quite well and quite happening... What a nice day to end up the first week after came back from NS.
Sunday, 14/06/09- Family day la... Try out the new KFC chicken. Jusco KFC was full of people! Luckily their service was quite fast. I'm the 10th person on the Queue but just have to wait 15 minutes only.
-*-*-*-*-*-*-*--*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*--*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-
Second Week
Tuesday 16/06/09- Go to JPJ on my own for the first time to change my driving license from P to CDL license. 45 people wait for only 30 minutes. Very efficient and fast service! Kudos to JPJ!
My primary friend saw me on bike on his way to Barber. So ask me to go for a tea. Then while waiting him to meet me at the cafe, saw my hang out friend. So ask him to have a tea together.
That night when to Carrefour and Jusco with Firdaus Q to buy long sleeve shirt. Bought a great deal. Carrefour brand cost RM22.50. Medium quality. Jusco brand (Suave) cost RM29. Low quality. The cloth was so thin! Then saw Durban got promotion long sleeve. Can't believe it was selling for only RM25! Nice quality, quite think and very smooth~
Go to Ifzuan house and then go to have tea.
Wednesday, 17/06/09- Go to Times Square again to watch the movie tittle Blood. Go out at 9am, for who walk like snail. For me 10am. But, they come at 10.50am! What a snail! Before movie, have some competition on the game, Daytona. Can't believe the last one can be the first at the end of the game! Unbelievable! After movie, having the McD promotion as lunch. Lucky enough to get some table and seat. Walk around and meet some classmate at the bowling centre. Then visit the new DC(Digital Centre). Quite like the Imbi plaza or Low Yat. But many still empty stall.
Yesterday night, go to Bistro for tea, then when to Bukit Permai after don't how long didn't visit there. Seems to go there everyweek last time but seldom go there already since we know how to go to others hill. Actually plan to go to Bukit Belacan at Ampang but they said yesterday is Girl's Night? What's that? To go there, you have to go from Bukit Bintang there. And they said, at that time 2am, Bukit Bintang is crowded and congested so we when to our old place, Bukit Bintang.
Since the road was empty, (because it was Thursday) so I owns the road! Drive kinda fun and fast, ;-) which just take around 10 minutes only. haha. Miss the view from there. Going to be a night of history because many going Uni and college next week with some of them going as far as Kedah and Johor.
When you enter Uni or college, you start a new life. You will have your new friend, new living style and new live as well. So secondary thing would be a second thing or worse, would be a HISTORY. So good luck guys!
Yesterday also, I follow my friend to HELP Uni because he would like to ask the detail of his course and he ask me to accompany along. Since I'm also in doubt, so I take this opportunity to clear my problem la. I have to go for Foundation, I choose Foundation in Arts and then only continue to my Bachelor of Psychology. The next intake for Foundation in Arts are in Sept 1 but I think I'm going for the Jan intakes. This Sept intake is the 3 group for this year and would also be the smallest class. Smaller class mean less class to offer and you will find it harder to fit all your class in few days.
So, Jan class is the biggest class, more class being offer. Not just that, I want to earn so money to satisfy my desire and for my own PEACE OF MIND to study. LOL!
That's it all the updates I want to tell you guys. Maybe not many people would finish reading this but if you finish reading this, you either:
*Warning!- My super long, 2 weeks boring update text! Would result in brain damage and cause you to be insane! Read at your own risk!
First Week
Monday, 8/06/09- My dorm mate and my close friend, birthday! The guest that night was all from our camp! Just haven't see each other for one day, then we meet up again! That was kinda celebration after came out from NS.
Tuesday, 9/06/09- Continued party, heading to Times Square for movie tittled Night At The Museum 2. We went there by car and park at Imbi Plaze for 3-4 hours cost us RM12! This is a lesson for me not to park there again! After that, fetch one by one until the last stop was at Semenyih! First time drive until so far!
Wednesday, 10/06/09- Go out with parents to watch Terminator 4 at Leisure Mall.
Thursday, 10/06/09- Firstly, forgot my online banking password and username after 3 months at NS. Then go to ATM Machine to fix the problem, then I realise my password was wrong but I'm very sure is that password. Don't know why and I have to pay RM12 for another ATM because they can't reset the password. That's the only solution. You forgot your ATM Card password, you pay RM12! Another lesson for me. This is the cause that I go to NS. Forgot everything for 3 months!
This is quite cheap compare to my friend case. He forgot his hp pin code and bring it to the shop to fix it cost RM30! This is also because going into NS for 3 months, didn't use the HP and you forgot the pin code. Another lesson.
Friday, 12/06/09- Having dinner at 'Look Out Point', for the first time with friend. We have to enjoy la since we got money from NS. Although that night was not so smooth with most of them turn off my invitation and with raining but the event is still on because I still have some very friendship and trusted friend around me! Haha! Thanks guys for making that night a successful and meaningful night for us! In fact, the rain makes the weather even better!
Saturday, 13/06/09- Go to sing K at Bobby's house. Abit of not so smooth event happen because his mic suddenly not working. Normally just ok because this is not my first time sing K at his house. LOL! And then, came a pro singer, claim himself seldom sing. haha... Sing quite well and quite happening... What a nice day to end up the first week after came back from NS.
Sunday, 14/06/09- Family day la... Try out the new KFC chicken. Jusco KFC was full of people! Luckily their service was quite fast. I'm the 10th person on the Queue but just have to wait 15 minutes only.
-*-*-*-*-*-*-*--*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*--*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-
Second Week
Tuesday 16/06/09- Go to JPJ on my own for the first time to change my driving license from P to CDL license. 45 people wait for only 30 minutes. Very efficient and fast service! Kudos to JPJ!
My primary friend saw me on bike on his way to Barber. So ask me to go for a tea. Then while waiting him to meet me at the cafe, saw my hang out friend. So ask him to have a tea together.
That night when to Carrefour and Jusco with Firdaus Q to buy long sleeve shirt. Bought a great deal. Carrefour brand cost RM22.50. Medium quality. Jusco brand (Suave) cost RM29. Low quality. The cloth was so thin! Then saw Durban got promotion long sleeve. Can't believe it was selling for only RM25! Nice quality, quite think and very smooth~
Go to Ifzuan house and then go to have tea.
Wednesday, 17/06/09- Go to Times Square again to watch the movie tittle Blood. Go out at 9am, for who walk like snail. For me 10am. But, they come at 10.50am! What a snail! Before movie, have some competition on the game, Daytona. Can't believe the last one can be the first at the end of the game! Unbelievable! After movie, having the McD promotion as lunch. Lucky enough to get some table and seat. Walk around and meet some classmate at the bowling centre. Then visit the new DC(Digital Centre). Quite like the Imbi plaza or Low Yat. But many still empty stall.
Yesterday night, go to Bistro for tea, then when to Bukit Permai after don't how long didn't visit there. Seems to go there everyweek last time but seldom go there already since we know how to go to others hill. Actually plan to go to Bukit Belacan at Ampang but they said yesterday is Girl's Night? What's that? To go there, you have to go from Bukit Bintang there. And they said, at that time 2am, Bukit Bintang is crowded and congested so we when to our old place, Bukit Bintang.
Since the road was empty, (because it was Thursday) so I owns the road! Drive kinda fun and fast, ;-) which just take around 10 minutes only. haha. Miss the view from there. Going to be a night of history because many going Uni and college next week with some of them going as far as Kedah and Johor.
When you enter Uni or college, you start a new life. You will have your new friend, new living style and new live as well. So secondary thing would be a second thing or worse, would be a HISTORY. So good luck guys!
Yesterday also, I follow my friend to HELP Uni because he would like to ask the detail of his course and he ask me to accompany along. Since I'm also in doubt, so I take this opportunity to clear my problem la. I have to go for Foundation, I choose Foundation in Arts and then only continue to my Bachelor of Psychology. The next intake for Foundation in Arts are in Sept 1 but I think I'm going for the Jan intakes. This Sept intake is the 3 group for this year and would also be the smallest class. Smaller class mean less class to offer and you will find it harder to fit all your class in few days.
So, Jan class is the biggest class, more class being offer. Not just that, I want to earn so money to satisfy my desire and for my own PEACE OF MIND to study. LOL!
That's it all the updates I want to tell you guys. Maybe not many people would finish reading this but if you finish reading this, you either:
CARING OF ME
(Which is a good thing, TQ for caring for me!)
or
TOO FREE
(Thanks also for reading my boring text)
or
BEING BUSY BODY
(As you like, this is your time)
(Which is a good thing, TQ for caring for me!)
or
TOO FREE
(Thanks also for reading my boring text)
or
BEING BUSY BODY
(As you like, this is your time)
Have been waiting for my post for a long time? I apologize because I post this quite late not because I forget it's because the hectic schedule that haunted me...LOL!
You know, when you release from a jail after one month there or if I don't count the holiday I got(because it was too short and nothing much can be done on that period), it's been 3 months there! Of course you have many things to do and many desire to be satisfy...wahaha
Since I'm back on Sunday(yeah, early one day), this few days have been meeting friends all around, having party and to celebrate we are finally being release. Of course you guys must be smiling because I talk like I'm being released from jail but the fact is that, it's almost 98% life like a jail!
Why I said so? Just describe briefly our life/schedule there:
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday: Stay inside the camp, follow those activity that being arrange. Almost everyday is the same.
Wednesday and Saturday: Having this 'Khidmat Komuniti' or community service in English, so we are being transport to help/serve those people out there and visit those department.
Department that I've ever visit is Fire Station and Museum of Army, Port Dickson. Service we have ever done is to clean up Hutan Lipur Lara Lenggeng. Wondering why just a few place right? This is because our camp is receiving Defence Minister visit to lauch a campaign called 'Penglibatan Program Latihan Khidmat Negara(PLKN) dalam Jabatan Pertahanan Awam Malaysia(JPAM)'.
There a tones of picture if I have to upload because the duration is 3 months and not 3 days. Maybe slowly depends on request from my readers. :-P For now, a little picture from the closing ceremony of National Service in our camp on Sunday morning.
On Stand-by mode
The event....
Commandant checking... "You better not move!"
"Let me see whether you wax your shoes..."
Guarding?
Guarding the grand stand, where the commandant seat
Hi mum and dad!
Tribute to 'Kawad Senyap'. This is the team who perform to the Defence Minister when he came to visit.
After that, TTS(Tempur Tanpa Senjata) and not
'Tidur Tanpa Seluar' or 'Tidur Tempat Sendiri'!
Staring while guarding...
Then
..................................................................................
....................................................................
.................................................
...............................
.............
....
Penyerahan sijil for Penolong Ketua Kompeni Delta, that's me la...
Not my picture
Then again
**********************************************
*************************************
***************************
******************
**********
*****
**
I perform in tarian cina, Para-para sakura
Where am I?
This is me la... Miss me? Wahaha
I'm sure the commandant enjoy it...
Before that picture with my team mate, my dancing team with the teacher! So sporting teacher!
In the dorm, ready to go back. The condition? so empty already...
Our station, in charge by our dorm teacher
The stuff...
....that accompany us for 3 months....
You're release! MERDEKA!
Before go back, last pic with my best teacher that everybody loves!
Bye my dorm!
Some of our dorm and our kompeni
Kump 2 Siri 6/2009
Not my picture
You know, when you release from a jail after one month there or if I don't count the holiday I got(because it was too short and nothing much can be done on that period), it's been 3 months there! Of course you have many things to do and many desire to be satisfy...wahaha
Since I'm back on Sunday(yeah, early one day), this few days have been meeting friends all around, having party and to celebrate we are finally being release. Of course you guys must be smiling because I talk like I'm being released from jail but the fact is that, it's almost 98% life like a jail!
Why I said so? Just describe briefly our life/schedule there:
Monday, Tuesday, Thursday and Friday: Stay inside the camp, follow those activity that being arrange. Almost everyday is the same.
Wednesday and Saturday: Having this 'Khidmat Komuniti' or community service in English, so we are being transport to help/serve those people out there and visit those department.
Department that I've ever visit is Fire Station and Museum of Army, Port Dickson. Service we have ever done is to clean up Hutan Lipur Lara Lenggeng. Wondering why just a few place right? This is because our camp is receiving Defence Minister visit to lauch a campaign called 'Penglibatan Program Latihan Khidmat Negara(PLKN) dalam Jabatan Pertahanan Awam Malaysia(JPAM)'.
There a tones of picture if I have to upload because the duration is 3 months and not 3 days. Maybe slowly depends on request from my readers. :-P For now, a little picture from the closing ceremony of National Service in our camp on Sunday morning.
On Stand-by mode
The event....
Commandant checking... "You better not move!"
"Let me see whether you wax your shoes..."
Guarding?
Guarding the grand stand, where the commandant seatOn this final day, of course my parent's there to support me!
Hi mum and dad!
Tribute to 'Kawad Senyap'. This is the team who perform to the Defence Minister when he came to visit.
After that, TTS(Tempur Tanpa Senjata) and not'Tidur Tanpa Seluar' or 'Tidur Tempat Sendiri'!
Staring while guarding...After that, head to the Dewan Makan...
Commandant last speech for the closing ceremony of PLKN Kump 2 Siri 6/2009
Commandant last speech for the closing ceremony of PLKN Kump 2 Siri 6/2009Then
..................................................................................
....................................................................
.................................................
...............................
.............
....
Penyerahan sijil for Penolong Ketua Kompeni Delta, that's me la...Not my picture
Then again
**********************************************
*************************************
***************************
******************
**********
*****
**
I perform in tarian cina, Para-para sakuraWhere am I?
This is me la... Miss me? Wahaha
I'm sure the commandant enjoy it...The dancing performance was the last. So head to the dorm to return our stuff... Stuff that accompany us for the past 3 months...
Before that picture with my team mate, my dancing team with the teacher! So sporting teacher!
In the dorm, ready to go back. The condition? so empty already...
Our station, in charge by our dorm teacher
The stuff...
....that accompany us for 3 months....
You're release! MERDEKA!
Before go back, last pic with my best teacher that everybody loves!
Bye my dorm!
Some of our dorm and our kompeniKump 2 Siri 6/2009
Not my picture
Conclusion? I gave 60%-70% marks for PLKN or maybe to this camp and this batch, where I trained in. Why I said so? I learned a lot, but in the same time, some is boring, some is wasting time and some showing bad example. Anyway, I'm still proud to be one of the 120 000 trainess this year.
Make your own Countdown Clocks
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
